It begins with a REVELATION

that the time has come to UNBECOME

UNBECOMING 

From shame, people pleasing, self-doubt, diet culture, scarcity, fear, deprivation, denial, suppression, living for the weekends, expectations, good-girl programming, obligations, staying quiet, anxiety, numbing, self-sabotage, comparing, despair, jealousy, overwhelm, exhaustion, obligation, resentment, stress, lonliness, sickness, toxic relationships, maintaining appearances, grinding, judgement, unworthiness and so much more.

Join Libby Bunten and Monica Rodgers for unforgettable journey…

UNBECOMING has concluded enrollment for January 2024

Please get on the waitlist to be notified about our next Sisterhood circle, happening soon!

“There is a path to the mystery and as I walk it is revealed to me. ”

— Donna Fontanarose Rabuck

Sound like you?

  • You crave connection & community with other women

  • You want to be more visible, daring, inspired, & alive

  • You long to deepen your spirituality

  • You know you have gifts to share with the world but you don’t feel qualified enough to put yourself out there

  • You want to be part of something significant & meaningful

  • You want to discover your unique gifts & experience more pleasure

  • You want to stop doubting yourself

  • You want to feel good in your body, NOW

  • You want to explore deeper parts of yourself & love what you find

Enrollment will be available again soon!
Click the link to be taken to a form where we can collect a few deets so that we can circle back when we are ready to open our doors!

  • “Embarking on the journey of unbecoming has transformed my life. I have grown immensely in many ways - in my business leadership, relationships with my husband, children, and friends, and efforts to build community. Living my truth and knowing how to follow my intuition have led me to live with joy and pleasure!”

    - Kristen McNichol-Himm, Founder & Director of ABQ Homeschool Connection

  • “I cherished and loved everything we did together. It has made me a better person, friend, mother & wife. Thank you both so much for being YOU and making this special place that filled my soul to the brim. I learned so much and am incredibly grateful!"

    - CVB

  • “Thank you for being there as I found my way back home to myself and for seeing me when I wasn’t able to. Thank you for witnessing me in my vulnerability, angst, pain and confusion, and for showing me where to find the things I have been seeking within myself. I am forever changed.”

    - Elyssa B.

  • “The gift of being part of the UNBECOMING Sisterhood is unquantifiable. It’s been life-changing, and being in connection to other women on the same journey- Wow! Having you coach us, as well as sharing your wisdom so generously, truthfully, freely, and vulnerable, has transformed my life."

    - Colleen S.

The Myth of Separation 

For eons, women have been ruled by false "feminine" virtues established by patriarchy, which has resulted in separation from ourselves and our relationship with other women.

This distortion has also projected illusions of fear and scarcity in a superficial world that has kept us hustling for our worth and depriving us of pleasure and rest.

This has resulted in the malnourishment of women worldwide who feel trapped, overwhelmed, isolated, and lonely- even in a room full of people.

In this ground-breaking coaching circle, we reveal hidden realms that fortify, nourish, and re-source us- breaking the spells that have held us in bondage through:

  • Group Coaching

  • Seeing our lives through the lens of feminine archetypes

  • Ancient mythologies & stories that were buried or hidden from us reveal new perspectives and revelations for our lives

  • Feminine mystery teachings help us remember our body’s natural rhythms, desires, and authentic expression

  • Tools & embodiment methods that reveal, heal, and liberate our minds, bodies,
    and spirits

  • Practices that strengthen our muscles of discernment, intuition, trust, and so much more

We identify patriarchal patterns that hold us back and cultural conditioning that keeps us bound in limiting beliefs about aging, beauty, money, eros, business, sisterhood, and much more.

By unbecoming, we remember who we are and liberate ourselves from all that limits us.

You are a REVELATION

Why Unbecoming?

Don’t just take our word for it…

  • I'm stepping even more solidly into my truth and my mission and where I want to focus my work...AND I'm prioritizing connection and things that keep my heart joyful and open to receiving. When I started this program, I was a year and half into my business and feeling bleak and like I wasn't going anywhere. Now I feel like I have amazing direction and momentum!

    Melissa

  • It's like getting prescription glasses when you didn't even know you needed them and then you find out you were nearly blind. This course has changed every aspect of my life for the good. I am more integrated with the "real me" and my inherent power. I've loved learning about the archetypes, heroine's journey etc. as much as I've loved embodiment practices and learning to connect with the deep within. To participate in this awakening with other sensitive, brilliant and beautiful women and navigate the real world, in all its glorious beauty and messiness- it has been one of the best decisions of my life.

    Linda

  • since joining the circle I feel so uplifted, held, seen, cared for, and carried by everyone else in the circle (especially our goddess facilitators). This in turn has me doing/feeling all of these things much bigger and louder for myself and everyone around me. I have no idea where I'd be in so many aspects of my life had I not joined this group. Everything I'm doing feels so good and right...and that is definitely not how I was feeling when I joined.

    EB

  • I would absolutely recommend this work for other women and for any other person who felt called to it. No matter where you are in your life, this work is about coming back home to yourself when you didn’t even know you had been away. This homecoming has been gradual and profound. The woman I see in the mirror today has more life and spark than the woman who started 6 months ago.

    Trish

  • I now regard myself with respect and dignity. My anxiety has abated. I have a sureness in my decisions. I am able to say "I'd love to but I can't" on a daily basis and love myself more for it. Before this course I was so wounded. With your help I have moved through these limiting beliefs. I am so inspired by your stories, our sister's stories, the books I'm reading, the goddesses I'm learning about - their strength and relevance.

    Beth

  • Personally I realized how much digging I still have to do. (And that’s not a bad thing). I realized, through witnessing others’ sharing that I want to keep climbing out of my shell because I want to be so much more like that! Open-hearted and unashamed to use my voice to tell my story, my truth. Witnessing other women do that in such an intimate group made it feel so possible and accessible to me and allowed me to ‘try it on for size’ in my own way.

    Christina

  • I am becoming strong AF. I am becoming extremely pro-sister and ready to experience all pleasure. I am making my own music and working with artists who respect me. I am sought after for my creative work. In fact there is so much of it, I don't have time to do it all! I'm not sure what is next except continuing to wake up every day knowing I am a queen and was one all along. There's been a lot stirred up by this course for me, so I am definitely metabolizing and recalibrating.

    Linda P.

UNBECOMING is the road map home to yourself.

It’s a courageous space to practice the tools and integrate the teachings of embodied feminine leadership in real-time. It’s an experience that will call you forth, anchor you in your body, and attenuate you to a process of revelation that is entirely yours.

When we say “leadership,” we mean that each of us is the leader of our own life.

When embodied in our leadership, we no longer tolerate a culture that wires women to override their innate intelligence, edit their authentic voice, deprive their desires, and undermine their natural intuition, emotion, and embodied presence.

Through UNBECOMING, you will unravel the threads of your conditioned stories and realities to create a new and empowering narrative for your life.

And this is just the beginning; when a woman says YES to herself, the whole world transforms.

UNBECOMING is the untangling process a lifetime of self-doubt, cultural conditioning & patriarchal programming that keep women disassociated and disempowered.

This experience is for you if you are ready to

  • Reclaim your imperfect self

  • Restore your vitality and self-expression

  • Remember the sacred

  • Reunite with other women

  • Reawaken your sovereignty

  • Resource your presence and power

  • Renew your faith in extraordinary possibilities for your life

  • Reveal what it means to untangle from patriarchal beliefs and systems

  • Receive love and belonging just for being who you are

Amy J.

“I crossed a threshold last night- I chose me! Do you know how important your work is? You are changing women’s lives!”

Dominique

“I thought it would take months to get where you’ve taken me in just three calls!”

This is an intimate online coaching experience for women who are ready to:

  • Learn to speak your truth and stop apologizing

  • Experience the feminine way in business and life

  • Create opportunities for rest, renewal, & reflection

  • Release shame and guilt and embody confidence

  • Reclaim authentic connection with yourself and others

  • Honor yourself through the art of pleasure & receiving

  • Discover your unique gifts & even get paid for them

  • Live the teachings, tools, and practices of revelatory feminine leadership

  • Reclaim a deep connection with yourself and other women in a supportive Sisterhood

  • And so much more!

Enrollment opens again soon!

Until now, our compliance and obedience have been used as tools of oppression, and we have been rewarded for sacrificing our needs on the altar of goodness and in the name of virtue.

Our virtue was never the issue, and our worthiness was never for anyone else to determine. Women worldwide are waking up to dismantle our role in perpetuating the oppressive behaviors that keep us from knowing our true power.

By disrupting our patriarchal programming, we liberate ourselves first from generational patterns of dysfunction, including our children. By UNBECOMING from who the world told us to be-we reveal the truth of who we are.

“When we gather together in a sacred circle. We create a 'temenos,' which means 'sanctuary' in Greek. In a women's circle, every woman in the circle is herself and an aspect of every other woman there as well. There is no vertical hierarchy in a circle, and when a circle is a temenos, it is a safe place to tell the truth of our own feelings, perceptions, and experiences.”

— Jean Shinoda Bolen

Join this circle of Sisterhood for 3 months of patriarchal detox and transform
your life.

This is a profound journey of self-discovery into the forgotten archetypes and teachings of the Feminine that will illuminate and liberate you in ways that will forever alter your perception of your true power, influence, and value.

UNBECOMING is unbinding from the burdens that were never yours to carry so that you can experience the freedom and joy that is your birthright.

Enrollment will open again soon!

When a woman says YES to herself, the whole world transforms.

90-Minute Weekly Group Zoom Gatherings + Live Coaching

Online Sisterhood for Connection & Support Throughout the Program

Valuable Bonus Workshops with Special Guests and teachers + In-Person Retreat

Enrollment open soon! Please come back
January 20th to be added to the list

Teachings, Tools & Practices of Embodied Feminine Leadership

Teachings

Unlearn male-centric history & gain wisdom and insight into teachings of feminine mythology, herstory, Woman-centered spirituality, and Goddess culture.

Tools & Practices

Proven somatic movement techniques, methods, and processes to transform your relationship with your mind, body, & spirit.

Community

Heal the Sisterhood wound and experience an intimate connection with other women & experience the magic of a new way of being

Meet Libby Bunten & Monica Rodgers

And revered embodiment coach Libby Bunten! Somatic & Systems Coaching, Feminine Leadership Coach, Founder of Self Approval School, MS in Clinical Psychology.

Monica Rodgers

Mentor, Guide, Rites of Passage Practioner, Inner Medicine Coach, CPCC Transformational Leadership Coach, Author, Feminist Scholar, and host for The Revelation Project Podcast.

Listen up.

Listen to Libby & Monica as they share about healing the sisterhood wound, divesting from patriarchy and good-girl programming, and UNBECOMING as a pilgrimage back home to yourself.

FAQ’s

  • No matter your background or field, if you are a woman who experiences exhaustion and overwhelm, holds back your truth, knows that there is more to life, and is longing for connection and support then this is for you.

  • This is your chance to have an experience of us before joining.

    The calls are warm, casual, and a great way to get your questions answered.

  • No problem. While attending the Zoom calls will give you the most benefit, we understand that things happen and we record the calls in case you need to miss one.

  • Women have reported…

    Better relationships with their partners, children & friends.

    Reconnecting to their intuition and trusting themselves.

    Feeling at home in their bodies & making peace with their truth.

    Taking risks that have resulted in higher paychecks, better opportunities, and more visibility and pleasure.

    Learning how to rest and receive.

    More confidence, creativity, and better boundaries.

    Better sex, more fun & intimacy.

    An overall sense of well-being, joy, and self-trust.

  • Just to be clear, this is nothing like a job interview, but an opportunity to get to know each other more.

    It’s important to us that women only invest in programs that will truly serve their needs and having a call with us ensures that we can deliver what you are seeking.

  • We have scholarships available for BIWOC

  • We believe that all women are leaders, so whether that means leading your own life or leading others, this program is for you.

  • The Sisterhood is filled with love & laughter and is a catalyst for amazing revelations that will change your life.

    Heidi B.

  • This is an experience you will never forget and that you will keep in your heart forever.

    Deb M.

  • An opportunity to have your own divinity reflected back to you.

    Beth M.

  • This program helps women see herself as she truly is- a BEAUTIFUL human.

    Claire S.

MEET YOUR COACHES

We’ve been told that women can’t partner in creative and business endeavors, but alas, that’s just another lie that patriarchal culture tells to keep us isolated and exhausted. The truth is that we were not meant to journey alone, and women are stronger together. Until now, we haven’t had the tools of embodied feminine leadership that help us to integrate and balance our lives.

We do this work because we’ve each gone through the hell of doing it all by ourselves and then hitting the wall. While we each managed this experience differently, it became the catalyst for transformation and innovation that eventually put us on each other’s path.

Unbecoming is our love language as professionals, friends, and partners. Our commitment is to bring you our wisdom, expertise, and lived experience while inviting trust, creativity, and, of course, humor.

We know you will love this work as much as we do, and we can’t wait to expand our UNBECOMING circle with YOU in it!

Once you hit the button, you will be taken to a calendar and a short form to tell us more about you. Once booked, you will get a confirmation email with information to hop on a call as soon as we are ready!

We can’t wait to meet you!